Ok, this post was edited. I erased it because it contained a fascinating and rather horribly boring account of my correspondance with a good woman who commited the horrible mistake of answering back one of my comments. I unloaded on her all my sexual frustrations, and upon rereading it I noticed it was horribly long and boring. Suffice it to say she was very nice to me, she gave me all the advice she could and it didn't help at all with my sexual issues. That's all you need to know.